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Chalice Circles – Information
What a Chalice Circle is Intended to BeA way to deepen our spirituality through a shared practice. A way to share our thoughts on life's big questions. A way to connect across age, gender, ethnic, economic and other differences. A way to be engaged, included, and heard in a safe, nurturing environment. A way to bring together the newer and the long time members in our community. A way to deepen our practice of shared UU principles. A way to practice service from within a small community. A way to develop our connections with the rest of the congregation. What a Chalice Circle is NOT Intended to Be:A social club, although ties between church members deepen through Chalice Circles. A debate society, although many important topics are discussed. A support or therapy group, although the atmosphere is positive. A worship service, although the meetings and topics have a strong spiritual tone. A rigid template of activities, although there are general guidelines to follow. A closed club, although groups must be limited in size to be effective. How Does It Work? A Spiritual PracticeSmall Group Ministry is a spiritual practice that creates a sacred space where we can tell the stories of our lives, be heard, and listen deeply to those of our companions. This is the heart of the Chalice Circle experience; all of the other parts of the format are designed to support this. It has three parts. The first is preparation to discuss the topic. At the end of each meeting the facilitator passes out a slip of paper with the topic for the next meeting, expanded by a number of leading questions to help the participants focus their thoughts. This lead-time is important for a person's thinking process to consider the most relevant experiences and to build the courage to speak their truth. The second part is the exercise of telling that story in a protected space to a group of people who are similarly vulnerable. This is a wonderful experience: to be listened to. Most participants don't realize how rare this is and how much they want it until they experience it in a Small Group Ministry setting. It is a feeling of being both known and valued. The third element of this experience is deep listening. This comes naturally to people who have practiced meditation, because they have trainedthemselves to empty their minds and listen to their breath, to be open to the sounds of the environment, to allow their own feelings and thoughts to dissolve and dissipate. This same attentiveness and egolessness is the hallmark of deeply listening to the experiences being narrated by fellow members of a Chalice Circle. It is a matter of standing out of the way so as to empathically participate in the speaker's experience. The result is a kaleidoscope of experiences around the topic of the meeting. Chalice Circle Format
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